DO YOU THINK:
Your behaviour is damaging your relationship?
Your partner is afraid of you?
Your behaviour needs changing?
Your children are afraid of you?
It’s time to do something positive to change your behaviour
HAVE YOU USED ANY OF THE FOLLOWING EXAMPLES OF ABUSIVE, CONTROLLING AND VIOLENT BEHAVIOUR?
Intimidated your partner with your presence
Controlled your partner’s social contact (with family or friends)
Checked up on your partner (phones/emails/social network sites)
Stopped your partner going out
Belittled/degraded/ humiliated your partner
Kicked your partner (or other objects)
Punched / Hit your partner
Held your partner down
Bitten your partner
Pushed/shoved your partner
Shaken your partner
Used or threatened to use a weapon
Put your hands around your partner’s throat
Punched walls/slammed doors
Denied and minimised your violence and blamed your partner for your behaviour
Controlled access to finances
Threatened to harm/kill/hurt/take children away/hurt children or family members
Used your children or child access to punish your partner/ abused her/him in front of the
Forced sex or specific sex acts / hurt during sex
Inappropriate or unwanted sexual demands
Sulked if you don’t get sex
Made all of the major financial decisions
IF YOU HAVE ANSWERED YES TO ANY OF THE ABOVE BEHAVIOURS –
IT IS LIKELY THAT YOU ARE BEING ABUSIVE.
NOW IS THE TIME TO STOP AND MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICES.
HOW MUCH WORSE DOES IT HAVE TO GET BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT?
YOU CAN LEARN TO MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICES AND CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOUR.
Contact us for details of our domestic violence intervention programme in the London Borough of Hillingdon area
Call: 07564 016066